Hi Miriam. Jen and me are trying to work out what yous really need.
Hotels are Benidorm, 27th floor, concrete balcony with no safety rail, pay for sunshine, badly cooked breakfast included... Er NO!
Arillas is village, apartments, basic acommodation, joy and happiness, helpful people, even Brits who will look after you, and food to get fat on.
ANY of the Arillas offer will look after yous two. Forget stars - it is where you need to be that dictates. Kaloudis is perfect for families, as is Mirage. On the beach. Near the bars.
Older couples who want total peace head to the other end - Tria Adelphia and many others. Arillas provides them all. But don't forget - Arillas is a small village.
Don't forget luvver the forum will let you know.
Hope it helps
Phil