I have noticed the reduction for some months, as you have too Terry. I even posted something about "where are you all?"
We can all guess about why this is happening, but will never really know. Unkind folks will say it is people like PhilandJen who put people off. Valda said it was becuase we are all a clique. The evidence is against that, but was she right? I use the forum to communicate with the dear people I have met in Arillas, but to others it looks like we are excluding them.
Is it the credit crunch? I would have thought that dreaming would have increased rather than disappeared in these circumstances. Like MaryH said, she would have to make do with the virtual Arillas that is our forum if she cannot afford to be there.
We all agreed we would up our presence on Facebook to promote our place, and many have done it. Me included. Kostas (Coconut) pointed us at the Coconut Bar group, so I joined up. Still not sure if it works but will keep trying.
What it needs is for the members who just read and never post to start sharing it all with us. Just to express their views, good or bad. Arillas Addicts can cope with serious criticism. Yes we protect, but heaven knows we want to see progress and improvement.
All right, off my hobby-horse, and back to my vodkad frappe
Phil