I knew what you meant Harold... its a bit of a farce really.
My friend travels a lot. She has never been charged extra... she has the red "large bag" stuck on hers all the time... Last time she had 37 kg... they said they would put 34 kg on it to let her through and took the bag. She has even taken some out and put it in carrier bags and taken it through.
I think its swings and roundabouts, they juggle it about as they think, if you get there a bit later they are more restricted for weight. Thats what I think anyway, I dont know if thats true.
I absolutely hate check in time.. if I could walk away I would.. I am never overweight (with my suitcases) but I would hate to have to open my bags and redistribute it all. I dont see why they do that as it all adds up to the same weight anyway! Pehaps the answer will be to wear it all and then take it all off in the toilet, I would never be able to get in the seats then if I kept it on!
My sister in law was going to the States and she was so overweight... when we emptied her case she had 90 pairs of knickers in there! WHY? we kept asking!
Very confusing it is and very stressful.. I really want to cut down my luggage this time.