Phil, I am like you, in tavernas I scrape and stack the plates, move glasses to the side of the table......that is if I can do it before the very attentive staff, in the Nut any glasses go to the bar before we leave, as for tipping, we have often been chased after with cries of "you forgot your change" and as for Thomas at Vavilas we always leave a large tip sometimes on the table (because he argues about taking your change), and then run before he gets the ouzo or Metaxa out. He feeds you delicious food, lovely wine, wonderful hospitality and when you pay him he wants you to drink all his brandy or ouzo.
We stay at the Mathraki and Nico is always telling me off for clearing the table after we have eaten.
The boys at Graziella though have got my measure, they arrive at the table en mass now before I can do the clearing up!!
Val x