Jo you are spot on, we used to go in the Malibu 25 years ago but now prefer to go in the coconut the age thing i suppose but as karl said you should not feel guilty we are on holiday and we work hard for our breaks, Karl you said about some places do make you feel uncomfortable if you don't spend more of your time and money with them i found that out about 6/7 years ago when i was asked that maybe if i liked it better elsewhere i should stay there next time, well that didn't go down well and so now we do.